How Do I Lead Someone To Christ?

How do I lead someone to Christ? I love this question. It comes from a listener named Brooke.

“Pastor John, hello! For our online church services during the coronavirus season, I volunteered to reach out to people who have contacted us to let us know that they want to trust in Christ, yet I don’t really know how to do this. I’ve grown up seeing people walked through a written prayer. But I wrestle with the doctrine behind the idea that you can simply ‘pray this prayer,’ and you’re good. When someone says they’re ready to accept Christ, how do you lead them?”

Great question. Oh, great question. Oh, that every Christian were ready and eager to declare the good news and to lead people into saving faith! So, thanks for the question. It’s very good for John Piper to go back and rehearse the basics of the gospel and the practicalities of a phone call like this or a Zoom chat or sitting across the table six feet apart, maybe, to share the gospel.

It’s helpful to have a simple plan. If we were all God, we wouldn’t need to have a simple plan; we could just overflow spontaneously. But we’re not God. The picture I would like to use for my simple plan is that we all need four treasure chests, and I call them treasure chests because they’re just packed with more than we could share at any given time, and that’s good. We don’t need to share everything in every treasure chest all the time. The reason I choose the term treasure chest is because Jesus said bumping into the kingdom and being ready to walk into the kingdom and be saved is like a man who stumbles across a treasure chest hidden in a field (Matthew 13:44). Our job as shepherds that lead new sheep into the fold is to unpack treasures.

Hard and Happy Way

Before I give you my four treasure chests that you put in front of you on the table when you’re talking or on the phone, the first thing I would say to a person — a total stranger, say, that I’ve just called to follow up with — would be something like this: “I am so excited, because you are about to enter into the hardest and happiest way of life that there is.” Now, they might be puzzled by that statement, and it might issue in a little conversation, but I think it strikes a very crucial balance: hard and happy, hard and happy.

You could explain from Psalm 37:4 that it’s a happy way: “Delight yourself in the Lord.” The Lord is worthy of our joy; he wants us to be happy in him. “In [his] presence there is fullness of joy; at [his] right hand are pleasures forevermore” (Psalm 16:11). And from Matthew 16:24, you might explain that Jesus said, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.” And you might say a few words about how taking up the cross is not a vacation. It’s where you die; it’s where you suffer. In other words, you will say to them, “Jesus will lead you through some very hard things.” “Through many tribulations we must enter the kingdom of God” (Acts 14:22).

Now, the reason for starting that way is the double truth — and they’re both so crucial — that the gospel is spectacularly good news. I mean, it’s good news, news, news, news — really good, good, good news. It’s the best news in the world. And we need to strike that note loud and clear: “I am about to tell you the best news in the world.” And Jesus said in Luke 14:28–33 to be sure to count the cost. You don’t want to go out against an army you can’t beat, and you don’t want to build a tower you can’t finish. You need to tell everybody this involves total devotion to Jesus Christ who was crucified.

So, that’s one possible way of starting the conversation: happy and hard. And you can follow up later with lots more about what that means, because I think so many people are drawn into the Christian life with some naïve prosperity notion that things are going to get better for them, when in fact they might get worse in many ways — even though the joy’s going to go down deeper than they ever imagined.

Four Treasure Chests of Truth

Then I would begin to unpack my four treasure chests of biblical truth. There are four great realities that you need to know in order to be saved by Jesus Christ. And that’s what you want: you want to close with Christ: receive Christ, believe Christ, engage with Christ, have Christ. And there are four things you need to know. And you can name your four chests with four words, and here’s the basic, simple plan:

1. God
2. Sin
3. Christ
4. Faith

I’ve remembered those for decades. Oh, how they have served me so well: God, sin, Christ, faith. Those are my four chests of truth, and I call them treasure chests because every chest has dozens of passages of Scripture and dozens of ways to talk about God and sin and Christ and faith. And I don’t want to give the impression that there’s a one-size-fits-all presentation of the gospel. You have four chests there, full of Bible truth, and our job is to trust the Spirit to guide us, and then take out of each chest one or two Scriptures to show those riches to your new friend. So, let’s just walk through them real quick.

1. Begin with truth about God.

Everything starts with God. Everything starts with the greatness of God, the glory of God. You might start with his holiness or his justice, because what we need to clarify here in this first treasure chest is that everything else is not going to make any sense if we don’t have some sense of who God is and what he’s like, and how sin, which we’re going to talk about in treasure chest #2, is against God — not just against people. And we can’t do that if we don’t know who God is.

I like to start with God’s glory because Paul’s going to define sin as a falling short of God’s glory (Romans 3:23). So, I would like to say to my friend Isaiah 43:6–7:

Bring my sons from afar
and my daughters from the end of the earth,
everyone who is called by my name,
whom I created for my glory,
whom I formed and made.

Isaiah 43:6–7

And I would say to them, “You were created, you exist, to glorify God — to make God look glorious. You were created to show God’s glory, his greatness, his beauty, his worth. That’s our duty.” First Corinthians 10:31: “Whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.”

That’s treasure chest #1.


2. Explain truth about sin.

All of us have failed to live for the glory of God. You have, I have, everybody has. Romans 3:23: “All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” — which I think means we have exchanged the glory of God for images (Romans 1:23). All of us have preferred other things to God, and so we’ve made the glory of God look worthless. We’ve dishonored God in so many ways, which means we’ve chosen the way of death. Romans 6:23: “The wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

And sin isn’t just things we do; it’s the way we are. We are “by nature,” Paul said in Ephesians 2:3, “children of wrath, like the rest of mankind.” None of us escapes this condition; none of us escapes the penalty of death and judgment and hell. Jesus said in John 3:36, “Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life; whoever does not obey the Son shall not see life, but the wrath of God remains on him.”

So, without salvation we’re all sinful by nature, and we’re all under God’s wrath. That’s treasure chest #2.


3. Proclaim truth about Christ.

The saying is trustworthy and deserving of full acceptance, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners. (1 Timothy 1:15)

That’s why this phone call is happening. Everything up until now is designed to make Christ and his way of salvation appear as great and beautiful and wonderful as they really are. God sent his Son, his divine, eternal Son, to bear the punishment we deserve. This is the heart of everything. This is the most glorious news in the world. There’s no way we can save ourselves from our sin and from his wrath.

So, here’s the wonder. Romans 8:3: “God has done what the law, weakened by the flesh, could not do. By sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh and for sin, he condemned sin in the flesh.” God condemned sin; he punished sin. The death of Jesus, his Son, is our punishment. All the sins of all those who would ever be united to Christ by faith were punished in Jesus. So, he says, “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” (Romans 8:1). This is spectacular news: no more guilt, no more punishment, no more wrath, no more condemnation. Eternal life, peace with God forever. Romans 6:23: “The free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

That’s treasure chest #3: Christ.


4. Finish with truth about faith.

I think it helps at every point, by the way, to make these as personal as possible from your own experience. I might say, “My favorite verse in the Bible to help explain how to receive all of this is Ephesians 2:8–9: ‘By grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast.’”

In other words, you can’t work for your salvation. You can’t earn it; it’s a free gift. You can’t deserve it; it comes from God’s grace or God’s love. Just a few verses earlier, it says, “God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ — by grace you have been saved” (Ephesians 2:4–5).

That means that even your faith is a gift of God right now in this moment. If you are reaching out to take Christ, if you are ready to have him as your Savior and Lord and the Treasure of your life, you are a miracle. God has made you alive; it’s called new birth. Trust him, speak to him, tell him all your heart. Declare your faith to him, welcome him as your friend.


Prayer and the Word

And you might ask at this point, “Do you have any questions?” Of course, they’re going to have questions. You have to decide how long you’re going to talk, and you might draw things to a close either by inviting them to pray or giving them the option of dealing with God in private. I’ve done it both ways. Send them away to pray: I’ve said, “You need to get alone with God and deal with him on the basis of everything you’ve heard, so that I don’t do any manipulating here.” And I remember one wonderful night, at about eleven o’clock in my office, a man who was just so ready, and I was not about to send him away because he was just saying, “Oh, I want to get this over.” And oh my, it was glorious the way it went over. But I didn’t put words in his mouth. I mean, I’ve already put a hundred words in his mouth by sharing the gospel.

You’ll suggest some texts that they should read when they hang up, maybe some places to go in the Bible, giving them particular Scriptures. You may welcome them into a discipling relationship with yourself or with somebody else your church has arranged or invite them to a class. You’ll want to encourage them to think about baptism and prepare for baptism in due time. And you’re going to warn them that the devil is real and will put them to the test. You’re going to say, “Resist him, firm in your faith” (1 Peter 5:9).

And you’re going to leave them with a promise. And oh my, there are so many you could choose. Maybe you’ll leave them like this. Hebrews 13:5–6:

“I will never leave you nor forsake you.” So we can confidently say,

“The Lord is my helper; I will not fear; what can man do to me?”

Hebrews 13:5–6

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The Night Before Good Friday

If you knew tomorrow was your last day on earth, what would you do?

I’m sure that most of us would spend our remaining moments with our family and loved ones, we would go somewhere peaceful and private. We would try to relish every moment, whilst reliving every precious memory and try to leave nothing left unsaid.

A little over two thousand years ago, Jesus had a night like this.

The night before he died, after the Last Supper, Jesus took his disciples to the Mount of Olives to pray. The Gospel of Luke records that Jesus’s anguish was so great that he sweated blood. Jesus knew what was about to come and the clock was running out of time. It would be the last time he had a moment with his disciples before his death.

The Gospel of John tells us that right before he was arrested, and subsequently tried and crucified, Jesus prayed a long prayer. In fact, it’s the longest prayer recorded in the New Testament. In the “The High Priestly Prayer,” Jesus, though completely aware of his coming death focused more on his disciples and those who will believe through their Gospels than on himself. His chief request to the Father is that he would make them one.

“Holy Father, protect them by the power of Your Name, the name you gave Me, so that they may be one as we are one,” prays Jesus for his disciples (John 17:11). He knew his impending death would be their greatest trial. Their faith would be tested like it had never been tested before, and in that moment the success of the early church would hinge on their unity.

But Jesus was also looking beyond those around him that night, to those who would put their faith in him through the ages.

“My prayer is not for them alone,” continues Jesus. “I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me.” (John 17:20-21)

Even then, at that agonizing hour, Jesus wanted his followers to understand that the credibility of the cross and the empty tomb would be contingent on the unity of the church. Without unity, the church loses its ability to effectively communicate the message of the gospel.

Division abounds in almost every country in the world these days. Sadly, it exists even between Christians and in most churches. We’ve allowed politics and theology to divide and fragment us. This isn’t what Jesus intended for his followers.

I firmly believe unity in this world begins in the church. It’s in the church where any dividing barrier — whether racial, political or social — should come down. As Billy Graham would say, “The ground is level at the foot of the cross.”

In this time of great division, the church must lead the way in modeling unity. That’s what Jesus asked of us the night before Good Friday.

Adapted From:
https://www.christianpost.com/news/the-night-before-good-friday.html

What Happened On Good Friday?

A Timeline of Jesus’s Last Day

After midnight on Friday morning Judas lead soldiers to arrest Jesus

Luke 22:47-53

While he was still speaking a crowd came up, and the man who was called Judas, one of the Twelve, was leading them. He approached Jesus to kiss him, but Jesus asked him, ‘Judas, are you betraying the Son of Man with a kiss?’

When Jesus’s followers saw what was going to happen, they said, ‘Lord, should we strike with our swords?’ And one of them struck the servant of the high priest, cutting off his right ear.

But Jesus answered, ‘No more of this!’ And he touched the man’s ear and healed him.

Then Jesus said to the chief priests, the officers of the temple guard, and the elders, who had come for him, ‘Am I leading a rebellion, that you have come with swords and clubs? Every day I was with you in the temple courts, and you did not lay a hand on me. But this is your hour – when darkness reigns.’

See Also: Matthew 26:47-56, Mark 14:43-52, Luke 22:47-53, John 18:1-11

Friday Morning (4am to 6am)

Jesus was taken before Annas and Caiaphas.

John 18:13-14

and brought him first to Annas, who was the father-in-law of Caiaphas, the high priest that year. Caiaphas was the one who had advised the Jewish leaders that it would be good if one man died for the people.

Matthew 26:62-66

Then the high priest stood up and said to Jesus, ‘Are you not going to answer? What is this testimony that these men are bringing against you?’ But Jesus remained silent.

The high priest said to him, ‘I charge you under oath by the living God: Tell us if you are the Messiah, the Son of God.’

‘You have said so,’ Jesus replied. ‘But I say to all of you: from now on you will see the Son of Man sitting at the right hand of the Mighty One and coming on the clouds of heaven.’

Then the high priest tore his clothes and said, ‘He has spoken blasphemy! Why do we need any more witnesses? Look, now you have heard the blasphemy. What do you think?’

‘He is worthy of death,’ they answered.

See Also: Matthew 26:57-68, Mark 14:53-65, Luke 22:54, John 18:12-14, 19-23

Peter Denies Jesus

Mark 14:53-54

They took Jesus to the high priest, and all the chief priests, the elders and the teachers of the law came together. Peter followed him at a distance, right into the courtyard of the high priest. There he sat with the guards and warmed himself at the fire.

Mark 14:66-72

While Peter was below in the courtyard, one of the servant-girls of the high priest came by. When she saw Peter warming himself, she looked closely at him.

‘You also were with that Nazarene, Jesus,’ she said.

But he denied it. ‘I don’t know or understand what you’re talking about,’ he said, and went out into the entrance.

When the servant-girl saw him there, she said again to those standing round them, ‘This fellow is one of them.’ Again he denied it.

After a little while, those standing near said to Peter, ‘Surely you are one of them, for you are a Galilean.’

He began to call down curses, and he swore to them, ‘I don’t know this man you’re talking about.’

Immediately the cock crowed the second time. Then Peter remembered the word Jesus had spoken to him: ‘Before the cock crows twice you will disown me three times.’ And he broke down and wept.

See Also: Matthew 26:69-75, Mark 14:66-72, Luke 22:55-62, John 18:15-18, 25-27

6am to 8am on Friday Morning

Jesus’s Trial Before Pontius Pilate

Matthew 27:11-14

Meanwhile Jesus stood before the governor, and the governor asked him, ‘Are you the king of the Jews?’

‘You have said so,’ Jesus replied.

When he was accused by the chief priests and the elders, he gave no answer. Then Pilate asked him, ‘Don’t you hear the testimony they are bringing against you?’ But Jesus made no reply, not even to a single charge – to the great amazement of the governor.

See Also: Matthew 27:11-14, Mark 15:1-5, Luke 23:1-22, John 18:28-38, 19:1-16

Barabbas is Freed

Mark 15:15

Wanting to satisfy the crowd, Pilate released Barabbas to them. He had Jesus flogged, and handed him over to be crucified.

See Also: Matthew 27:15-26, Mark 15:6-15, Luke 23:18-19, 23-25, John 18:39-40

Jesus Carries His Cross with Help from Simon of Cyrene

John 19:17

Carrying his own cross, he went out to the place of the Skull (which in Aramaic is called Golgotha).

Luke 23:26

As the soldiers led him away, they seized Simon from Cyrene, who was on his way in from the country, and put the cross on him and made him carry it behind Jesus.

See Also: Matthew 27:31-34, Mark 15:21-22, Luke 23:26-32, John 19:17

9 AM Friday Morning

Jesus Is Crucified

Mark 15:25-26

It was nine in the morning when they crucified him. The written notice of the charge against him read: The King Of The Jews.

See Also: Matthew 27:35-37, Mark 15:25-26, Luke 23:33-38, John 19:18-22

Friday 9 AM to 12 PM

Soldiers Cast Lots for Jesus’s Clothes

Luke 23:34 

Jesus said, ‘Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.’ And they divided up his clothes by casting lots.

See Also: Matthew 27:35, Mark 15:24, Luke 23:34, John 19:23-24

The Crowd Mocks Jesus 

Matthew 27:39-43

Those who passed by hurled insults at him, shaking their heads and saying, ‘You who are going to destroy the temple and build it in three days, save yourself! Come down from the cross, if you are the Son of God!’ In the same way the chief priests, the teachers of the law and the elders mocked him. ‘He saved others,’ they said, ‘but he can’t save himself! He’s the king of Israel! Let him come down now from the cross, and we will believe in him. He trusts in God. Let God rescue him now if he wants him, for he said, “I am the Son of God.”’

See Also: Matthew 27:39-43, Mark 15:29-32, Luke 23:35-39

Jesus Speaks from the Cross

Luke 23:43

Jesus answered him, ‘Truly I tell you, today you will be with me in paradise.’

John 19:26-27

When Jesus saw his mother there, and the disciple whom he loved standing near by, he said to her, ‘Woman, here is your son,’ and to the disciple, ‘Here is your mother.’ From that time on, this disciple took her into his home.

See Also: Luke 23:39-43, John 19:25-27

Friday – 12 Noon to 3 pm

The Earth Responds

Mark 15:33

At noon, darkness came over the whole land until three in the afternoon.

Luke 23:44-45

It was now about noon, and darkness came over the whole land until three in the afternoon, for the sun stopped shining. And the curtain of the temple was torn in two.

See Also: Matthew 27:45, 51-53, Mark 15:33, Luke 23:44-45

Friday 3 PM

Jesus Dies

Mark 15:34-39

And at three in the afternoon Jesus cried out in a loud voice, ‘Eloi, Eloi, lema sabachthani?’ (which means ‘My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?’).

When some of those standing near heard this, they said, ‘Listen, he’s calling Elijah.’

Someone ran, filled a sponge with wine vinegar, put it on a staff, and offered it to Jesus to drink. ‘Now leave him alone. Let’s see if Elijah comes to take him down,’ he said.

With a loud cry, Jesus breathed his last.

The curtain of the temple was torn in two from top to bottom. And when the centurion, who stood there in front of Jesus, saw how he died, he said, ‘Surely this man was the Son of God!’

See Also: Matthew 27:46-56, Mark 15:34-41, Luke 23:46-49, John 19:28-30

Friday 3 PM to 6 PM

Soldiers Pierce Jesus’s Side

John 19:33-37

But when they came to Jesus and found that he was already dead, they did not break his legs. Instead, one of the soldiers pierced Jesus’s side with a spear, bringing a sudden flow of blood and water. The man who saw it has given testimony, and his testimony is true. He knows that he tells the truth, and he testifies so that you also may believe. These things happened so that the scripture would be fulfilled: ‘Not one of his bones will be broken,’ and, as another scripture says, ‘They will look on the one they have pierced.’

See: John 19:31-37

Joseph of Arimathea Claims Jesus’s Body

Luke 23:50-54

Now there was a man named Joseph, a member of the Council, a good and upright man, who had not consented to their decision and action. He came from the Judean town of Arimathea, and he himself was waiting for the kingdom of God. Going to Pilate, he asked for Jesus’s body. Then he took it down, wrapped it in linen cloth and placed it in a tomb cut in the rock, one in which no one had yet been laid. It was Preparation Day, and the Sabbath was about to begin.

See Also: Matthew 27:57-60, Mark 15:42-45, Luke 23:50-54, John 19:38-42

The Entrance of Jesus’s Tomb is Sealed with a Stone

Mark 15:46-47

So Joseph bought some linen cloth, took down the body, wrapped it in the linen, and placed it in a tomb cut out of rock. Then he rolled a stone against the entrance of the tomb. Mary Magdalene and Mary the mother of Joseph saw where he was laid.

Matthew 27:65-66

‘Take a guard,’ Pilate answered. ‘Go, make the tomb as secure as you know how.’ So they went and made the tomb secure by putting a seal on the stone and posting the guard.

See Also: Matthew 27:60-66, Mark 15:46-47, Luke 23:55-56